Friday, July 12, 2019

Minimizing aggression for maximum results


I get frequent (seems like daily) emails from pro-life activist Randall Terry.  The latest shared a link to a video where he shows many of the pro-life ads that have run during various political campaigns over the years, including some that aired during Super Bowls in several cities.  Most of the ads displayed graphic photos of aborted babies.  They are shocking and meant to be so.  Several targeted Barrack Obama during his presidential run, calling him a baby murderer and accusing all those who voted for him of having blood on their hands.  He doesn’t mince words.  The language is direct and the images graphic.

Most recently, Terry was in the news for protesting at a rally for a current presidential candidate who happens to be homosexual.  Terry himself had a strained relationship with an adopted homosexual son who was killed in a car accident several years ago.  While I respect him for his convictions, I question effectiveness of his methods.

Of the political pro-life ads I watched, I don’t believe any of the candidates were victorious.  I know Obama still won the presidential election, and the other candidates were not familiar to me.  While the horrors of abortion cannot be downplayed, I wonder if these in your face approaches may only serve to anger and embolden those on the other side.  The same goes for disruptive protests at campaign rallies.  The best time to reason with people is not when they are emotionally charged. 

So, what is the answer?  We can’t remain silent, of course.  We Catholics could stop legal abortion if we all voted in accordance with our faith.  There is nothing wrong with Randall Terry’s message per se, just the manner in which it is perceived.  The reproductive rights crowd will write him off as an anti-woman adversary.  While a few may be shocked to their senses, most will not be swayed by bloody photos and harsh rhetoric.

Women themselves hold the key to ending abortion.  The pro-life message can be a tough sell coming from a man, especially when the man is loud and confrontational.  Instead, we must try to understand the predicament a woman or young girl finds herself in with an unplanned pregnancy.  At the same time, she needs to understand that a new life has been created and deserves protection.

Catholic Answers Live radio often does shows where the listeners are asked, “Why are you pro-choice?”  Trent Horn is usually the guest who very charitably and calmly presents the Catholic pro-life point of view.  He has written several books on the topic including “Persuasive Pro-Life.” Rather than attacking the pro-choice callers, he challenges them by asking questions that cause them to rethink their position. 

Often the calls revolve around when human life actually begins or at what stage of development does the embryo become a human being.  Trent always presents a good philosophical argument for the callers, but there is one scientific argument that has always been convincing to me.  I read it in a 1999 article titled “When do human beings (normally) begin” by Dianne N. Irving.  I won’t go into detail here, but rather link to the article so you can read it yourself.  Basically, Dr. Irving explains what takes place in the characteristic number of chromosomes at fertilization that defines a human being. If you don’t think that little embryo is a human being, please give the article a read!